Hello,
We apologize that you are facing this issue. The update issues has been solved as it was a mistake from our side. Please get back to us if the issue persists. Now the theme update will show only if we push the update, which is going to be may be after 1-2 days. That will be a real update please do not get confused.
Now for the spacing issue, we believe that you have not been updating your post/page as you should have, after you make changes to your post make sure you press the Update button on the right under the Publish tab.
The spacing will save. If still your paragraphs are not saved properly. Please contact us via email again with your backend credentials, we will create a test page for your for reference.
email: support[at]axlethemes.com
Sorry for the inconvenience.
Regards.